# Banterfox > Practise flirting with realistic AI partners, get honest feedback from your coach and build dating confidence in 7 days. For women and men, 18+. Free trial. Banterfox is a mobile app (Android and iOS) for adults (18+) that builds flirting and dating confidence. It is not a dating app: users practise conversations with realistic AI partners (with moods, opinions and topics they avoid) and get honest feedback from an AI coach. Languages: English and German (Germany, Austria, Switzerland). Day 1 is free; Banterfox Pro has a 7-day free trial. ## The 7-day program - Day 1: Openers that get answered — Specific beats generic. Today you learn to start conversations people want to reply to. - Day 2: Curiosity, not interviews — Follow-up questions make people like you more. Question chains make them leave. - Day 3: Share and listen — Connection is a two-way street: you give a bit of yourself back. - Day 4: Playfulness and tests — Teasing builds attraction, and handling a tease with humour is half the game. - Day 5: Read signals, respect a no — Knowing when to leave is as attractive as knowing what to say. - Day 6: Ask them out — A clear, specific invitation at the right moment. Today: the subway challenge. - Day 7: Put it together — Everything in one conversation, then a plan for the real world. ## What Banterfox teaches and refuses to teach - Teaches: curiosity and follow-up questions, playfulness, showing clear interest, reading signals including soft no's, asking someone out specifically, respecting a no. - Never teaches: negging, pressure or persistence after a no, manipulation, explicit content. ## FAQ ### What is Banterfox? Banterfox is a flirting confidence app for adults. It combines a 7-day program of short, research-based lessons with practice conversations against realistic AI partners and honest feedback from a coach. ### Is Banterfox a dating app? No. You don't match or chat with real people. You practise with AI partners who have their own personalities and moods, so you can make mistakes safely and take the skills to real dates. ### Who is Banterfox for? For adults (18+) of any gender who want to feel more confident when flirting, on dating apps or in person. You choose whether you practise with women, men or everyone. ### How does the 7-day program work? Each day has a lesson with a quick check, a boss challenge and a bonus scene. Passing the boss challenge unlocks the next day. Topics go from openers and follow-up questions to reading signals, asking someone out and handling rejection. ### Is it free? Day 1 is free. Banterfox Pro unlocks all seven days, unlimited practice and chat reviews, with a 7-day free trial. You can cancel anytime in your app store. ### Does Banterfox teach pickup tricks? No. Banterfox teaches curiosity, playfulness, clear interest and respecting a no. It never teaches negging, pressure or manipulation, and practice partners leave when you push past a no. ### Which languages does Banterfox support? English and German, including Austria and Switzerland. Lessons, practice partners, coaches and feedback all speak your language. ### What happens with my conversations? They are stored with your account so your coach can remember your progress. You can delete your account and everything with it in the app at any time. ## Pages - [English](https://banterfox.app/en): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/en/blog - [Български](https://banterfox.app/bg): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/bg/blog - [Čeština](https://banterfox.app/cs): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/cs/blog - [Dansk](https://banterfox.app/da): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/da/blog - [Deutsch](https://banterfox.app/de): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/de/blog - [Ελληνικά](https://banterfox.app/el): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/el/blog - [Español](https://banterfox.app/es): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/es/blog - [Eesti](https://banterfox.app/et): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/et/blog - [Suomi](https://banterfox.app/fi): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/fi/blog - [Français](https://banterfox.app/fr): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/fr/blog - [Gaeilge](https://banterfox.app/ga): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/ga/blog - [Hrvatski](https://banterfox.app/hr): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/hr/blog - [Magyar](https://banterfox.app/hu): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/hu/blog - [Italiano](https://banterfox.app/it): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/it/blog - [Lietuvių](https://banterfox.app/lt): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/lt/blog - [Latviešu](https://banterfox.app/lv): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/lv/blog - [Malti](https://banterfox.app/mt): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/mt/blog - [Nederlands](https://banterfox.app/nl): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/nl/blog - [Polski](https://banterfox.app/pl): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/pl/blog - [Português](https://banterfox.app/pt): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/pt/blog - [Română](https://banterfox.app/ro): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/ro/blog - [Slovenčina](https://banterfox.app/sk): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/sk/blog - [Slovenščina](https://banterfox.app/sl): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/sl/blog - [Svenska](https://banterfox.app/sv): home; blog at https://banterfox.app/sv/blog - Privacy Policy: https://banterfox.app/en/privacy (German: https://banterfox.app/de/privacy) - Terms of Use: https://banterfox.app/en/terms (German: https://banterfox.app/de/terms) - Impressum (legal disclosure): https://banterfox.app/de/impressum ## Articles - [How Banterfox Works: A 7-Day Flirting Coach App](https://banterfox.app/en/blog/how-banterfox-works) (en): Banterfox is a flirting coach app for adults: a 7-day program, realistic practice partners, a live vibe meter and honest feedback. Here's how it works. - [How to Start a Conversation With a Stranger](https://banterfox.app/en/blog/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-stranger) (en): How to start a conversation with a stranger in a café, bookstore, gym or on the U-Bahn: read if they're open, open with the moment, and exit gracefully. - [Getting Ghosted or Rejected? It's Data, Not a Verdict](https://banterfox.app/en/blog/getting-ghosted-rejection) (en): Getting ghosted happens to about one in five young adults a year. Why rejection is rarely personal, what to do after silence, and how to stay confident. - [Playful Teasing vs. Negging: How to Flirt With Humour](https://banterfox.app/en/blog/playful-teasing-vs-negging) (en): Playful teasing builds attraction; negging damages trust. Learn what's fair game, how to make a joke obviously friendly, and how to handle a tease. - [How to Ask Someone Out: Timing and Exact Words](https://banterfox.app/en/blog/how-to-ask-someone-out) (en): How to ask someone out so it's easy to say yes: make it specific (day, place, a link to your chat), ask while the energy is high, and accept a no lightly. - [Signs Someone Is Interested (and When to Let Go)](https://banterfox.app/en/blog/signs-someone-is-interested) (en): The clearest signs someone is interested are effort signals: questions back, longer replies, plans. How to read soft no's like 'haha maybe' and let go. - [Follow-Up Questions: The Easiest Way to Be More Likable](https://banterfox.app/en/blog/follow-up-questions-be-more-likable) (en): Follow-up questions make people like you more, while a chain of generic questions feels like an interview. How to ask them, with real chat examples. - [How to Write a First Message on a Dating App](https://banterfox.app/en/blog/how-to-write-a-first-message) (en): The first message on a dating app that gets answered is short, specific and easy to reply to. What the data says, real examples, and what to avoid. - [So funktioniert Banterfox: die Flirt-Coach-App in 7 Tagen](https://banterfox.app/de/blog/so-funktioniert-banterfox) (de): Banterfox ist eine Flirt-Coach-App für Erwachsene: 7-Tage-Programm, realistische Übungspartner, Stimmungsanzeige live und ehrliches Feedback. So läuft's. - [Fremde ansprechen: Respektvoll ins Gespräch kommen](https://banterfox.app/de/blog/fremde-ansprechen) (de): Fremde ansprechen im Café, in der Buchhandlung, Boulderhalle oder U-Bahn: erkennen, ob jemand offen ist, mit dem Moment beginnen und elegant wieder gehen. - [Geghostet werden: Warum es kein Urteil über dich ist](https://banterfox.app/de/blog/geghostet-werden-ablehnung) (de): Geghostet werden passiert etwa jedem fünften jungen Erwachsenen pro Jahr. Warum Ablehnung selten persönlich ist und wie du nach Funkstille souverän bleibst. - [Necken beim Flirten: Spielerisch statt herabsetzend](https://banterfox.app/de/blog/necken-beim-flirten) (de): Necken beim Flirten schafft Nähe, Herabsetzen zerstört Vertrauen. Worüber du necken darfst, wie ein Witz ankommt und wie du auf Sticheleien reagierst. - [Nach einem Date fragen: Wann und wie genau](https://banterfox.app/de/blog/nach-einem-date-fragen) (de): Nach einem Date fragen, sodass Ja leichtfällt: konkret (Tag, Ort, Bezug zum Chat), solange die Stimmung gut ist, und ein Nein locker annehmen. So geht's. - [Interesse erkennen: Signale lesen und loslassen](https://banterfox.app/de/blog/interesse-erkennen-signale-lesen) (de): Interesse erkennen gelingt am besten über Aufwand: Rückfragen, längere Antworten, eigene Vorschläge. Woran du ein sanftes Nein erkennst und wann du gehst. - [Nachfragen stellen: So wirkst du sofort sympathischer](https://banterfox.app/de/blog/nachfragen-stellen-sympathisch-wirken) (de): Wer Nachfragen stellen kann, wirkt sympathischer. Eine Kette allgemeiner Fragen fühlt sich dagegen wie ein Verhör an. So geht's, mit Chat-Beispielen. - [Erste Nachricht auf Tinder & Co.: So antwortet dein Match](https://banterfox.app/de/blog/erste-nachricht-tinder-dating-app) (de): Die erste Nachricht auf Tinder, Hinge oder Bumble, die beantwortet wird: kurz, konkret, leicht zu beantworten. Was die Daten sagen, plus echte Beispiele. Contact: service@ml-canvas.com